Posted by Autumnleaf on Sun, 01/07/2007 - 13:47 :: Conures
Just a bit of an overview, in case it helps explain things:

I got my first bird, Pepper, about five and a half years ago. Two years later, I purchased Salty, to be a friend for Pepper.

Despite my constant attempts, Salty was never tamed. He was content to be just Pepper's friend, and ignore me.

Another two years later, we got Peep. Peep and Salty were absolute best friends.

Another eight months later, Pepper was killed by a dog. Another month later, and Peep died of unknown causes.

Then, two months later, we made the purchase of Aderyn, a GCC, who was not only supposed to keep poor little lonely Salty company, but also be a replacement of Pepper, who was the absolute sweetest, friendliest (and, I'll admit, stupidest) budgie ever.

Now, it's been about three weeks since I got Aderyn, and she and Salty have already bonded quite a bit. And Aderyn doesn't like to be around me when Salty is in the room with her.

But when Aderyn is out of my bedroom, away from her cage and Salty, she is very friendly and extremely sweet, and likes to stay on my shoulder rather than flutter away like she does when she's near her cage and/or Salty.

But when I leave the room when she and Salty are together, Aderyn starts shrieking, calling me back into the room, and she'll continue shrieking for about three minutes, or until I come back (whichever comes first).

I'm afraid she'll lose any tameness she may have had, and want to prevent this. My first thought would be to separate the two birds, but I cannot, as my room is the only room in the house that is safe from my dog.

I was considering asking my friend (who already has four budgies) to take care of Salty for a while as I attempt to tame Aderyn a bit more; is this the right course of action, or should I attempt to keep training her while Salty is here?

Any advise would be gladly aprpeciated!
Posted by karen on Tue, 01/09/2007 - 20:46.
I don't know what would be best. Well, actually having Aderyn out of the room more is probably the best - it's good for her to be exposed to different people and places, especially when young, and will help her bond to you best. But that isn't always possible.

You might try having your friend take Salty, no more than a few days would be best, or it may be hard for him to go back to having no budgie friends around again. Spend lots of time with Aderyn during this time.
Or, if you keep Salty around, try just giving them seperate out of cage times... give them a little time together as a reward for Aderyn spending some time with you.
Some of your problem may not be from her bonding with Salty, but just that she feels safe and comfortable in your room and quickly gets bored of sitting on your shoulder and just wants to play. When she's out of your room she stays on your shoulder better because you're more safe and familiar than her surroundings. Try playing with her more - play with small toys with her (like ringing a bell or rolling a small toy ball for her) or having her climb a rope or bird ladder and praising her, or simple trick training. Just the fact that she screams for you when you leave the room means she's at least somewhat bonded to you.




Karen
Chico (conure) and Pippin (budgie)
WI
Posted by Autumnleaf on Wed, 01/10/2007 - 19:21.
Yeah, I think the real problem is what you said: she's bored. She'll get on my finger willingly enough if I will take her to the mirror or will feed her, but if I'm not doing something to entertain her, she'd rather be in her cage or chasing Salty.

Darby
Aderyn (GCC)
and Salty (budgie)